Vlog

These haven’t been updated for a while but if you’re sitting on the fence about coaching with me they might help to give you more of a sense of who I am. And maybe there will be more coming soon!!!!!

A Prayer for Self Love – by Don Miguel Ruiz

Something new from me. Was so in love with this when I read it (from the book The Mastery of Love) that I’m reading it for you here to enjoy. Hope it brings you peace, joy and comfort. Be kind to yourself. Wx

12 January 2018

Happy new year!!! What if we could change the whole concept of busy? What might happen?

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 36 – 29 August 2017

What if we could incorporate some of the feelings we have on Saturdays into our weekdays?  Is it possible?

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 34 – 23 August 2017

Love as a verb.  Act with love, do love, be love.  With everyone.  With the world.  It will come back to you in spades.  And the world will be such a more beautiful place.

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 33 – 13 August 2017

The art of relaxation – this one is a quick zen like contemplation of how we can get more flow, more easy and more feel good into our lives.  Is it a missing ingredient????

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 31 – 1 August 2017

Love love love this idea. You can’t be perfect when you first start. Just aim to improve. Don’t compare your beginner self to someone else’s advanced life work. Just start.  (And I could have added so many more examples, playing the piano, learning a language, doing yoga, starting meditation, anything new!)

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 30 – 26 JULY 2017

You know how you come home and worry about all the things you did today that weren’t perfect?  What if you were to let go of what happened today?  You can’t change it now.  Just set an intention to do things that make you feel good tomorrow.  A fresh new day.

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 29 – 20 JULY 2017

What a week.  One of those times where everything in life seems to be coming together.  And of course, as always, that’s just about our perspective.  But it feels like there have been big shifts for me recently.  All my mindset work over the last 9 months is paying off.  I’m so happy and at peace with the world.  Confident in myself.  But this video is all about how you get close to your big goals, you take never ending baby steps in the right direction, and then suddenly it seems like something magic happens.  Has this happened for you as well?

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 27 – 5 JULY 2017

Just watched Bethany Mota being interviewed by Lewis Hewis.  I started off wanting to be annoyed about a 21yo upstart with everything.  But she’s pure heaven.  Beautiful heart, beautiful messages.  What she has learnt from being cyber bullied at 12 and how it’s made her push for a better world.  Love everything about her.  Wonderful role model for teenage girls.  Anyway I talk about some of her messages in the video (while snuggled in PJs).  Hopefully she can have such a big impact on you.

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 26 – 24 JUNE 2017

Our minds are the most fascinating thing.  You think you’ve got a great handle on being positive and then you suddenly realise that quite often you are jumping to the negative conclusion.  Do we all do this?  Seems such a senseless thing to do – if we can stop doing some of this, change this habit, surely it has to bring a lot more happiness into life?

Be kind to yourself babe.

Wx

WEEK 25 – 19 JUNE 2017

Just a quick video this week.  I struggled feeling like I was going backwards and that everything seemed too hard in life and why did we bother.  So I sulked for a few days.  Then I got back on with doing what I can to live a great life.  Tonight was a perfect Monday night of cleaning up, healthy dinner, coaching study, coaching someone and some gentle yoga.  I am still heading for more greatness.  You can too.  Be kind to yourself lovely human.

Wx

WEEK 24 – 11 JUNE 2017
No video?  What?  That can’t be.  I’m practicing what I preach this week – be kind to yourself.  All my energy and focus is going to heal the dog bite on my leg.  I’ll be back better than ever next weekend I’m sure.  Big love to you this week for so much happiness.  xx

WEEK 23 – 4 JUNE 2017

I’m starting to think that setting a goal and achieving it is the way to some serious happiness.  If we have no goals I don’t think we get the same sense of awe of ourselves and what we are capable of.  I think moving forward and taking steps to better is becoming a key for what makes me happy.  You?

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 22 – 28 MAY 2017

My mantra for this week is ‘BECAUSE I CAN’.  I am so in love with it.  It might be fake confidence but it is helping me to achieve things I never imagined I could do.  So so happy.  Getting out of your comfort zone and pushing yourself through a little discomfort leaves you feeling so proud, satisfied and very very happy.

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 21 – 20 MAY 2017

How do you feel about birthdays?  A wonderful thing?  We need more?  Or they are a disaster making us feel old?  I’m reflecting on my birthday this week on the vlog.

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 20 – 14 MAY 2017

Woohoo it’s my birthday this week!!!!  Get excited!  Oh that’s right – it’s not always all about me….  So this week, in relation to YOU, what would you do to feel good if I gave an extra 5 magic minutes every day to do just that?????

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 19 – 8 May 2017

Hey lovely.  Thinking this week about spending money.  Does it make you feel good or bad at the time?  And does it make you feel good or bad later on…  Always an interesting exercise to think about how our actions make us feel.  And just maybe there are other options that would make us feel happier instead of more things….

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 18 – 30 APRIL 2017

Hey wonderful person.  This is my favourite and best video so far (it’s short like me)!!!!!  It’s a whole new week – let’s find something that makes us feel good.

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 17 – 23 APRIL 2017

Hey good looking!  Hope you’re having a sensational week.  This week I am contemplating those messages in your head that are so deeply ingrained that we never bother to question them anymore.  I know one of mine has been incredibly negative and stopped me from doing nearly everything.  Hugely liberating to finally become aware of it and start replacing it slowly with something that lets me say yes to new things more often.

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 16 – 15 APRIL 2017

Hello sunshine!!!!  If I was standing right next to you, what would I be saying about how great you are?  And about what I adore about you.  What I am grateful for about you.  You rock!  Don’t forget it.

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 15 – 9 APRIL 2017

Hello hello!!!!  What if you became your biggest cheerleader?  Really supported yourself and encouraged yourself and did little happy dances for every little good thing you did every day?  How good would that feel?

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 14 – 2 April 2017

Hey honey bunch, this is just a reminder that the real world is not perfect and we are not going to be incredibly happy every single day.  There are going to be bad days (or not so good days) and it’s okay.  Please don’t try to fight them.  Allow yourself to feel the feelings and spend some time with yourself.  Give yourself permission to feel like rubbish.  The harder we fight against them, the harder they hold on.  Just let them be and eventually they should pass (and if they don’t please talk to someone about them).

Be kind to yourself.

Wx

WEEK 13 – 26 MARCH 2017

This week I’m talking about how we can feel more happiness and joy.  Copy a fabulous moment from your past or just try to find something that might make the current situation better.  Hope you enjoy.  Have a gorgeous week gorgeous!

Be kind to yourself

Wx

WEEK 12 – 19 MARCH 2017

Shake it up!  I’ve been thinking about change, facing my fears and what I’ve learnt recently.  Maybe life is easier than we think?  Or maybe I’m just trying to simplify things.  And maybe that’s ok.  Anyway this week’s video goes for nearly 4 minutes – I got a little excited.  See it here.

Be kind to yourself.  x

WEEK 11 – 12 MARCH 2017

Want more time?  You might be able to give up something simple to get a little more.  Click here for this week’s video.

Be kind to yourself.  x

WEEK 10 – 5 March 2017

I seem to be ahead of myself.  Apologies I thought it was week 11.  Yay I get another week!!!!

This week I’m chatting about how bad it makes us feel when we focus so much on what we DON’T have.  Click here for this week’s video.

Be kind to yourself.  x

WEEK 9 – 26 FEBRUARY 2017

This week I’m grappling with my concept of being kind to yourself.  I think it sounds easy but it’s so hard to implement!  Click here for this week’s video.  You can also read the related post over here.

Be kind to yourself.  x

WEEK 8 – 19 FEBRUARY 2017

I thought I’d share with you this week a little bit about who I am, what I’m doing and why it matters to me!  Click here for this week’s video.

Oh and I meant to show you my fabulous tshirt at the end but ran out of time.  So here it is – Namaste.  “The light in me salutes the light in you.”  With thanks to Spiritual Gangster.

Be kind to yourself.  x

WEEK 7 – 13 FEBRUARY 2017

Power to the people and Valentine’s Day.  How do you feel about Valentine’s Day?  Click here for this week’s video.

Be kind to yourself.  x

WEEK 6 – 5 February 2017

Shades of grey (not like that!!!!!).  Darkness and light I am talking about 🙂 .  Click here for this week’s video.

Be kind to yourself.  x

WEEK 5 – 30 January 2017

Because if you keep doing the same thing, you’ll keep getting the same result!  Click here for this week’s video.

Be kind to yourself.  x

WEEK 4

Here is the link:  https://youtu.be/7RiFbvZKziE

Enjoy you brilliant amazing human being.  (And I am loving the 2017 whiteboard in the background – update on that coming end of January).  Wx

WEEK 3

Here is the link:  https://youtu.be/Vx-XAO69q9c

We love our happy place.  Be kind to yourself.  x

WEEK 2

Here is the link:  https://youtu.be/Vx-XAO69q9c

Hope you like the idea!  Enjoy.  Be kind to yourself.  x

WEEK 1

Here is the link:  https://youtu.be/y4ZRNugp5k0

I’m also relatively sure this might make a couple of people I know uncomfortable.  Ewww she has no make up on and didn’t put any effort into looking good in public.  How can she do that?  She can look so much better!  My question to you is, does it make any difference to the message?  Would the message be more believable if I was wearing makeup and had perfectly styled hair?  Or is it more genuine and believable because it’s just me?  Would I have been this excited after spending 2 hours being styled?  Do we need to wear make up and look our best at all times to be loved?  Are we better at our jobs with make up?  Are we a better friend when we look our best?  Personally I don’t believe so.  And hopefully in time I can convince you to love you for the beautiful natural you and that you can love yourself unconditionally.  Because at the end of the day I firmly believe it’s not how we look, but who we are that matters.  And it’s why some of the most beautiful people in the world, to me, are the ones that radiate happiness and love no matter their age.  How can you not adore Louise Hay?  So, do you enjoy more the prettiest or the happiest people you know?  Something to ponder until next week.

Be kind to yourself.

Wx